Brian & Lesley by happypat

Brian & Lesley

We are sad today as our son & DIL flew off home early this morning. The house is very quiet without them.
We’ve all had such a lovely time & the three weeks has flown by.
A bit of hassle at check in this morning at Manchester airport, the baggage system was down plus the computer wouldn’t let them check in on last leg from Sydney to Christchurch. The plane finally left at over two hours delay.
Bless them too as they sent for an air fryer for us which arrived even before they took off.
We have been dithering about buying one for ages as Harry can’t manage the induction hob very well……it will be ideal for when I’m away from home.
Not much instruction with it so trial & error tonight!
Lesley was horrified to find I had not emptied the water drawer or filter on my drier since we moved in almost two years ago. I only use it for fluffing towels & finishing off but I was shocked at the amount of fluff!

The older we get the harder it is to say goodbye. Lesley also said goodbye to her mum who is 89. Of course they are as far away from us as you can possibly go!!! 😨
Heart aching to say goodbye again and tough for Lesley too with her Mum. 💔 Glad you got to see them and their delay travelling was not too horrific. Sending lots of love. Such a super photo.
September 5th, 2023  
@casablanca Thanks Casa for your kind words…..it it hard but tomorrow we will be feeling much better…..we get used to the distance again after a while.
September 5th, 2023  
A lovely capture of them both.
September 5th, 2023  
I really feel for you Pat, it must be so hard to have them so far away. I hate it that all mine are in Sussex/South London and we're in Herefordshire. When I'm feeling sad about it I think of you and I count my blessings. Do you have any plans to go to NZ in the near future? Lovely photo btw.
September 5th, 2023  
Very sad saying goodbye when you have all had such a lovely time.
Let's hope you get over here soon.
Good that L&B have sorted a a few things out for you..
Lovely photo.
September 5th, 2023  
So hard to say goodbye Pat such a lovely photo of both
September 5th, 2023  
Oh, I feel your pain Pat. So far away, but how lovely to have had them home. I am like you on the air fryer, I am hesitating but sense that I will give in soon!!!
September 5th, 2023  
@susiemc thanks Sue, yes I am planning to go out around March April time but Harry has no plans to go now, he says it’s too far for him & doesn’t help he doesn’t like holidays!
September 5th, 2023  
@julzmaioro Yes lots of jobs done, the garden especially looks properly finished off.
September 5th, 2023  
@jamibann Well we used the air fryer tonight but must say we have a lot to learn!! 🤣🤣 watch this space!
September 5th, 2023  
Lovely photo..yes, the heartaches for a while when they go.im trying get John to go to Florida to see tom.. keeps saying see how he feels..air fryers..trial and error..but you will get there .I have a remousksa oven thing from Lakeland I use more actually . Hugs xx
September 5th, 2023  
@brennieb I ordered a remouska during lock down then changed my mind! My sister in law suggests I buy a recipe book for the model I have! I imagine your John is a bit like Harry not a great traveler!! Missed you in Cork!
September 5th, 2023  
good to remember to take lots of photos! Next time they come, you could do a canal cruise?
September 5th, 2023  
a hint of sadness in your narrative Pat x
September 5th, 2023  
A Lovely photo. Sad to see them go, but I guess you are fairly used to the separation. March/April isn’t too far away.
September 5th, 2023  
ely shot - - sad to see them go home again Pat!
September 5th, 2023  
Always sad to say goodbye. You must miss them. Hope you can visit them soon.
September 5th, 2023  
A lovely photo of them both. I hope you can visit NZ soon.
September 5th, 2023  
It must be hard to have them so far away. But I'm sure you are thankful for the visits!
September 6th, 2023  
I can tell how much you enjoyed their visit but so sad to say goodbye! I find it hard with my niece living in Devon 6 hours drive away so know how difficult it must be for you. March/April not too long to wait!
September 6th, 2023  
Oh I'm sorry, I can't imagine how hard this must be. Hoping things like Zoom help a bit these days. Lovely portrait.
September 6th, 2023  
Such a lovely photo and so many lovely moments while they were here, just passes so quickly.
We don't have an air fryer....not even thinking about it at the moment!!!
September 6th, 2023  
@sarah19 Well I wouldn’t have been Sallie but Allan can cook! I am hoping Harry will be able to whizz something up when I go away…..three weeks is a long time to last!!
September 6th, 2023  
Fabulous photo and I absolutely know that feeling all too well - we’ve been dithering too but think we will succumb
September 6th, 2023  
Oh Pat! 🙏 safe travel for Brian & Lesley. 🙏 for you and Harry. A special portrait for the family. fav
September 6th, 2023  
@rensala I bought a book today as it’s the timings & temperature I’m not sure of!
September 6th, 2023  
@briaan Thank you Brian, all safely back in Christchurch a couple of hours ago complete with luggage!
September 6th, 2023  
@happypat - do let me know which one, we stopped dithering and just bought a Ninja 😊
September 6th, 2023  
@rensala Well I would have perhaps picked the same but we’re kindly given one so it was a surprise! It’s a Tefal. I bought a book today to get some idea of the timings! Harry had left over potatoes today with a couple of rashers of bacon & an egg! He said it was good except I should have put the egg in sooner. Food is taking longer to cook than I thought but it’s very clean & simple…..we will get better!
September 6th, 2023  
@happypat good luck experimenting. I’m excited to have ours delivered
September 6th, 2023  
I can understand how sad you are to see your son and daughter in law leave, Pat. Especially after you've had such a lovely time together. I felt very sad this time when my daughter went back to the UK. It felt much more long term this time, rather than like a short adventure when she first left NZ. I hope the weeks fly by for you until you come here and get to see everyone.
September 6th, 2023  
@nickspicsnz Thanks Nick, you know exactly how we feel. Think it was worse this year as with Covid we hadn’t seen them for almost three years. Such a long way away you live! Your daughter will miss you too. Has she come back to live in the UK permanently? Strange she has retraced your steps!
September 6th, 2023  
@happypat Hopefully not permanent, but she is talking of being in the uk for at least another 10 years. It feels like that's a very long time 😞 Will we get a chance to see you when you're here? Although I expect you'll want to spend every second with family after missing being with them for the last few years which I can totally understand. 🙂
September 7th, 2023  
@nickspicsnz Well the inconsiderate family in NZ have spread themselves out all over the place! Five in South Island & five in North island but only a grandson now in Morrinsville. Hoping to stay with then on way back up to Auckland & would love a meet up with You & the others I usually meet. Hopefully we can arrange something.
September 8th, 2023  
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