Water:  Friend or Foe? by taffy

Water: Friend or Foe?

Our mentoring group is focusing on street photography, which all of us agree is one of the hardest of genres. We're discovering various definitions of street photography, how to think about b&w versus color, the role of people, and some mentor/models on the web that can help guide us. So far, I think it requires that it be a scene that tells a story or conveys a narrative in some way, is public and 'out there' but not literally on a street, may or may not have people in it. This week our assignment to ourselves was photograph street photography but without people. I just posted a collage with P3's narrative explaining the various images - http://365project.org/taffy/365/2014-11-10 to help explain why I'll be erratic in participating on 365 for a bit.
Below is for my documentation purposes...no need for further reading, but for those who are curious...
The interior of our house -- the entire condo which consists of 2 units, 2 floors each -- will have to be gutted and rebuilt or restored due to fire, water, and smoke damage.
Many lessons learned:
1. this can happen to anyone
2. insurance matters and I'm so thankful we have it
3. if you are safe and healthy, everything else can be fixed or replaced and 'things' really don't matter as much
4. 'things' that are of value do not correlate with their cost -- most valuable things I'm worried about restoring are an album my dad maintained of photos and artifacts while serving in the Pacific in WWII; my teddy bear from when I was born, older than me since he'd belonged to my cousin; and for 'saving from the fire' my 365 toy penguin and Danbo (yes, ridiculous, but I did go in to get them once allowed to enter for just a few minutes)
5. I've always wondered what I would grab in this situation. Now I know...computer, hard drive, camera kit with lenses (so lucky lenses were all stored away in one bag and my camera was so handy), cell phone. Firefighter was kind enough to retrieve my glasses and bring them out.
6. Once in a fire, all things associated with plastic are dangerous because of the chemicals released by fire and heat -- much of what we have in our lives is associated with plastic!
7. Even if fire is contained, smoke destroys most of the rest. Water to put out fire also creates destruction.
8. I really understand what the firefighters in Trips 1 - 3 were trying to spare us. I wish it had worked. If they had done this to our house on the first call, I'd have been outraged, I suspect, thinking they were too aggressive. What a hard job they have!
...And many more lessons...glad to be able to sit in a hotel room and write a 365 narrative...it could have been so much worse! I will return to comment/post etc when I can until things settle into a new normal.
@golftragic @newbank @pamknowler @888rachel @sullivar I decided to use this one even though there's a person in it because you can just barely make out the firefighter. As the story, I was hoping it conveyed the sense of being on the outside and looking in -- the feeling I had as this all unfolded, standing on the street in my down slippers, flannel pj trowsers, and fleece top, holding my computer and hard drive with my camera bag draped over my shoulder. I figure even if it's not our exact assignment, sympathy might allow the rule-bending!
November 12th, 2014  
It does portray what you have been through
November 12th, 2014  
I'm amazed that you can be so philosophical. Good for you, and good luck with the rebuild
November 12th, 2014  
You are an amazing woman, Taffy! I admire your courage and strength!
November 12th, 2014  
@swilde @thirdjoe It's odd...there's not much choice but to move on especially having survived it without a scratch. It truly could have been so much worse as instead of being upstairs in our bedroom with the sounds drowned out by one of three 'air scrubbers' in the house, I had fallen asleep watching TV in my study downstairs right near the alarm. Jim didn't hear it and after waking him up (going through smoke so thick I couldn't see, and seeing flames coming out of the wall by the fireplace), I ran downstairs and banged on our neighbors' door since their smoke alarm hadn't gone off (smoke and heat rise). What if I'd still been in Australia????? Thank you for your kind words, Sue and Joe
November 12th, 2014  
Holy cow! I can see the firefighter inside. I am thinking that some rule-bending is in order, for heaven's sake. Outside, looking in, is a great way to describe this shot. I feel like I am watching the news. :). You are displaying great balance and pragmatism. Hang in there.
November 12th, 2014  
@taffy Isn't it incredible the circumstances that make up an event. In this case, they were set up so you could raise the alarm. I am full of admiration for you because there isn't a hint of complaint in your narrative. I wish you all the best over the next few months.
November 12th, 2014  
Wonderful, amazing narrative under these very adverse conditions, and no, I am not surprised a tiny bit that you would photograph it, for a mentor assignment no less, and post it on here! Yes, the important thing is that everybody involved is alive and well. Things are things, and they be rebuilt and reacquired (except for the ones that hold sentimental value and memories, but that is part of life also). I hope your insurance company is cooperative and sympathetic; otherwise, get yourself an advocate to protect your interests. There were some really tragic situations here where people not only lost their homes, but had to do battle with their insurance companies to get their homes rebuilt. I wish you the very best outcome. You can look at it as a renovation! It only took us a year to finish construction while living in it, and as painful as it was the end result was so worth it. So glad that you were able to save your camera, lenses, and computer, and hopefully your photo albums. Sending lots of warm thoughts your way!
November 12th, 2014  
@panthora Thanks -- this makes sense! I'll watch the situation carefully and it's good to know there is such a thing as an advocate! Our personal insurance is an excellent company and is showing itself to be understanding, sympathetic, and competent. Keeping fingers crossed. The condo association (just the two units) uses a different one. Good reputation overall, but I haven't interacted with them as much and there is a difference in speed of response. The good thing is the two unit owners are working closely together and that helps too. I may ask for advice down the road if you don't mind!
November 12th, 2014  
So very thankful that you are OK. Beautifully told and photographed. All good thoughts and more!
November 12th, 2014  
You have a fantastic attitude. I appreciate the advice. Thanks for keeping us informed.
November 12th, 2014  
So thankful you and yours are safe, though very sorry for your loss. Very expressive image.
November 12th, 2014  
Still in a hurry so thought a good way of keeping this info is with a fav but mind you, Taffy is such a good photographer its worth it for that fact!
November 12th, 2014  
Very atmospheric. Fav
November 12th, 2014  
That is definitely a picture that tells a story. Interesting definition of street photography.
SO glad you came out of your ordeal unscathed, and glad you had insurance. Hang in there!
November 12th, 2014  
Great b/w hope you are ok.
November 12th, 2014  
this is a wonderful image and i know so personal to you as you have so wonderfully narrated. You are very right about what matters... most of our 'things' can be replaced. Best wishes for a straightforward rebuild. Take care x
November 12th, 2014  
So relieved that you are safe and amazed that you have the presence of mind to photograph and be philosophical about the experience. I think I'd be a basket case. Sounds like you were able to save some of the things that matter most to you. Of course camera and photos are at the top of the list! I have thought about what I'd rescue and my list would be similar to yours. So sorry you had to experience this loss and hoping the process of rebuilding goes quickly and smoothly.
November 12th, 2014  
Wow, I can't imagine. You have a great perspective, and a great eye. It's funny because I think street photography is fun and a lot easier than indoor photography, which is almost impossible for me thus far. Wishing you luck.
November 12th, 2014  
Just so pleased that you are all OK. This s a dreadful experience that you are gong through. I hope the rebuild gets underway quickly. Great picture as well
November 12th, 2014  
What more can I add to what have been said already...good luck with the rebuilding process.
November 12th, 2014  
Wow those are some valueble lessons all of us need to here from time to time to remember what really matters! Glad to hear no one got hurt!
November 12th, 2014  
Funny when the alarm went off one night at our house all I could think of getting out was my dh but he had dementia and I couldn't risk him not getting out fortunately I decided to peak in the kitchen before I left. And there was a pan I left on the burner when the electricity went out. it was smoking but no flame I grabbed it with a holder and put it under the water. If there had been a flame I would have left in a hurry. But you have a husband that can get himself out. But remember all these things are just things. Memories live in the mind (until dementia strikes and even then the old ones linger). So be sure you are safe and he is safe and if there is time the pets are safe. Because if you are not then then things really won't matter. Now you are safe you can grieve a little for the things that are lost and then take joy that you have the most important things your life and his.
November 12th, 2014  
Glad you made it out safely. I can't imagine how sressful such an incident may be but I admire your philosophical outlook. - and your photogaphy
November 12th, 2014  
I think you can be excused Taffy!!! You are sounding on here remarkably positive and well. I hope that is reflected in reality. It certainly tells a story Taffy. My thoughts remain with you.
November 12th, 2014  
Again - sympathy! We had a fire back home years ago - most of the books in our living room got damaged... Hope you guys are back on your feet shortly!
November 12th, 2014  
What a horrible thing to happen! So glad you're all OK, though, Taffy. Things can mostly be replaced, people can't. I realise it's not going to be an overnight job to get everything fixed but I do hope the process is as quick and painless as it can possibly be. Take care. xx
November 12th, 2014  
My goodness Taffy what a scary experience for you and Jim!! So thankful you are both ok - what a miracle you were downstairs and heard the alarm!! Why am I not surprised about what you brought out to save? Your camera, lenses and computer - so important to you. After all you are a "Photographer" now - who else would be taking photos while it was happening!! You sound very brave and positive and I hope that is the case. be aware that shock can set in a couple of days later and you might find yourself in tears. So sending you great big hugs from across the sea to both you and Jim. I hope the hotel is good and that the next few months will not be too much of a trial for you. Keep safe!!
November 12th, 2014  
By the way this is an amazing capture - this is street photography at its best showing life in the raw!! Looking into that room with the firefighter doing his job. Huge Fav!!
November 12th, 2014  
You have great inner fortitude, Taffy. Your shot conveys a story...so happy you are safe and looking forward to the rebuild.
November 12th, 2014  
An amazing capture,so pleased you are OK,and so true,it can happen to anyone.Sounds like it will be quite a whIle before you have a home again.
November 12th, 2014  
Well capture! Sorry about all the losses from this fire and at this holiday time too. All the best to you.
November 12th, 2014  
Great capture! Fire has always been a fear of mine. Hopefully will find a place to settle into until your condo is rebuilt. Hopefully to you will be able to save all of your memorabilia that means so much to you. You are in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this dreadful time.
November 13th, 2014  
So glad there is a happy ending to this dreadful experience Taffy!
Hoping that the rebuilding is speedy.
We will be here when you back.
Great photo that tells a story.
November 13th, 2014  
Such a scary situation....just glad you are safe. Great capture.
November 13th, 2014  
Taffy please let me know if there is anything you need in restoring your father's photo album. I have been a long time photo scrapbooker and have TONS- really TONS of papers, and even an album or two to spare which I'd be happy to give you!!! Just let me know what you need- it's yours!

On to the shot- great for documentation and probably helped to lessen the shock a bit as the "photographer" took over.
November 13th, 2014  
When I saw your photo i was hoping it wasn't your fire/water damaged home but not so. I love the realization that everything is just stuff. Healthy perspective altho feel sorry for your months of inconvenience.
November 13th, 2014  
Taffy, like so many others, I am so very glad you and yours are physically safe. You and Jim have been on my mind a great deal in the last few days. I had a similar, but different, experience many years ago when my son was young. I found it astonishing that such great clarity around decision making regarding what stayed and what went settled over me almost instantaneously.

Like you, I was able to quickly gather clothes for a few days, computer hard drive with dissertation in progress, my son's life - to date - in photos, and I could walk away from the rest with no qualms bc I could only take what would fit in my car. I mentally reduced everything else to just possessions and they were all superfluous at that point. All were safe. No loss of life. That's truly what mattered most.

I'm sorry your loss has been greater. While I'm not sure HOW I could help, I'm only an hour away and am WILLING to help. I'm so glad you have an association and insurance. I'll continue to hold positive thoughts that each day is easier than the one before and that the process of rebuilding and re-entry all proceed as smoothly as possible.
November 13th, 2014  
This photo sure does tell a story. I agree with you, if the firefighters had done what ended up being done in the end I may have not been too happy about the damage they created in my home. We all have learned a lesson here though, let them do their job. So grateful you were home and you were at a place to hear the alarm and get your neighbors out too. It is so hard to lose things no matter what we say or think at the time. One day at a time. Wishing you the very best in your hotel and new place till you can go back home again. There are people out there that can restore damaged photos so that may be an option for your Dad's album. Take care.
November 13th, 2014  
Glad you are safe. So sorry for what you had to deal with and will continue to deal with. Hugs and love and prayers to you during this time.
November 13th, 2014  
Wow.....just caught up on everything. So sorry to hear, but glad you're all alright. If there's anything you need, please don't hesitate to ask.
November 13th, 2014  
@voiceprintz You've really nailed it -- in an instant, you are able to think about what matters. Thanks for sharing your story with me.
November 13th, 2014  
@pamknowler Pam, I thought of you this morning as I teared up over the hotel being out of English Breakfast tea. You were who immediately popped into my mind! Big smile and appreciate the warm thoughts.
November 13th, 2014  
@joansmor Oh my -- what a lot to have gone through, Joan!
November 13th, 2014  
@redy4et I smiled when I read your comment - great minds think alike, I'm sure. I wonder what the proportion would be of 365ers grabbing cameras over almost everything else (that doesn't live and breathe, of course).
November 13th, 2014  
Photographer keeps shutter clicking while their house burns, you are one hell of a lady. Are you going to send them to the local newspaper with the story too. Fab shot Taffy.
November 13th, 2014  
so sorry you have to go through this. After years as a Red Cross volunteer, you will never believe how any people do not have insurance. so glad you did! it does make it a little easier, but know it is never easy. You have such a great attitude. Hold on to it!
November 13th, 2014  
Jo
OMG I cannot believe what I have just read. How awful for you both, so glad you made it out safely. I'm off to check the batteries in my smoke alarm!!
November 13th, 2014  
I can only imagine your thoughts as you were taking this picture. (I confess to wondering if you were able to grab your hard drive on the way out.)
November 13th, 2014  
whoa. i just saw this. how awful. but documenting it with photos will turn an emotional and physical loss into something else. things always happen for a reason...so sorry.
November 13th, 2014  
Oh my goodness...what a nightmare for you, Taffy! I'm so sorry this has happened. Thank goodness you are safe!
November 13th, 2014  
Heavens above, what an ordeal Taffy you poor soul. I guess the good points are as you listed above, but you understate the downside, as most of us would do. The emotional toll on both of you must be immense and likely to take some time to get over. I do hope you aren't out of your home for a minute longer than need be. Don't worry about the project, just post what and when you wish. Shock sometimes takes a while to manifest fully and does so in odd ways, so please do take great care of yourself. Another virtual hug is on its way.
November 14th, 2014  
I forgot to say anything about this excellent image. I've never seen anything like this, and it certainly fills the bill for street photography. Well done to save your camera and kit, and even better that you were in a fit state to take this photo. Fantastic live-action shot.
November 14th, 2014  
You're very brave and strong,i admire U for that--Hugs,love and prayers to you during this time.
November 14th, 2014  
So glad you are safe. Wow. Just shaking my head. Wow. Hang in there.

Thinking of all the family photos and treasures I have stored in....plastic. Thank you for all that you pointed out in your narrative.
November 14th, 2014  
I'm so glad everyone got out safely. Your thoughts on what you'd save and what is important struck a cord. My near death experience was a coronary when I was 43. It quickly sorted out what was truly important! If there was any way I could help I'd gladly do it.
November 14th, 2014  
While this is a very traumatic experience, I have learned, in my own personal life anyway, that it was during the difficult times that I grew the most and became more aware and grateful for life and those that I love.
November 14th, 2014  
Taffy, I'm so sad to read this! Thankfully no one was hurt but I imagine there will be a lot of things you will miss. I hope things go as smoothly as can be expected with the rebuild.
November 16th, 2014  
Oh, Taffy! I am speechless! This is truly devastating... although such a blessing that you and Jim are fine and no one was injured. I hope that you can get settled into comfortable housing until you can rebuild. May the process go as smoothly as possible! Keep up your very positive and inspiring attitude! Wishing you and Jim all the best as you weather this storm.
November 17th, 2014  
So tragic for you. So sorry this has happened. I will be following your saga.
November 23rd, 2014  
How dreadful a time it must have been for you, I am so sorry it has taken me until now to find out , hope you are able to move on and be happy x
November 23rd, 2014  
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