Haze's strangers: No.103: Margot by quietpurplehaze

Haze's strangers: No.103: Margot

A couple of days ago, I decided to take my camera and walk over the water meadows to the Hospital of St Cross and Almshouse of Noble Poverty, a favourite place of mine for peace and tranquility - and photographs.

I was trying to get a close-up of one of the British White Cattle which graze on the meadows when I heard noisy breath behind me and felt a pressure on my shoulder. Startled I turned round to find another one of the cattle getting a bit up-close and personal. So I quickly abandoned that photo.

At the almshouses, I found good shots in the Master's garden and the Norman church. Next I went into the Hundred Men's Hall and saw this lovely bright lady volunteer serving cakes and hot drinks. I ordered a slice of fruit cake and a mug of hot chocolate and found she is called Margot. She was happy to pose for some photos and to be in my strangers' project. I took just 4 shots and this one is my favourite.

Margot usually works as a volunteer on Monday morning and Saturday afternoon and was just filling in on that day so I felt fortunate to meet her. I asked how long she had been doing this voluntary work and she told me 25 years. I guess I looked a little surprised and I was then shocked when she went on to tell me that she will celebrate her 90th birthday this August. She says she has no idea of retiring from the tea room.

The family - 6 children, 10 grandchildren, 7 great grandchildren, who live all over the world - will be getting together with Margot for her birthday celebrations.

Sadly her husband died 4 years ago, aged 92 - but they had enjoyed a marriage of 62 years. He was a composer and musician, playing violin, viola and piano. Born and brought up in Wales, he was firstly a Welsh speaker and had to learn English when he started school. Margot described her husband as having 'a quirky sense of humour'.

Even as a child, Margot was always fascinated by science and finished her university degree in Biology when she was 19. She went on to a university post and was involved in research into the Rh factor in blood groups. After she had her children she needed to look for work more compatible with family life and became a teacher, still in her favourite subject.

Another passion for her is classical music - Beethoven, Bach, Brahms - and she is a pianist but had to let her piano go when she downsized house.

I asked the predictable question about factors contributing to a long life and the answer was 'hard work and take an interest in everything.'

Margot gave me her email address and I promised to send a photo or two. I thanked her for letting me take her photo and telling me her story and she reciprocated by thanking me for my interest.

By one of those really strange coincidences, the following day Ray and I were in Winchester and met Margot in the street.

I made the introductions. Ray told Margot that she is incredible. She recognised me as 'the camera lady'. I'm happy to be known as such.
Your portrait highlights Margo s youthfulness
April 30th, 2017  
Stunning portrait with wonderful detail and tones Hazel, she will love it I'm sure, what an interesting story, I don't know how you retail all that information to share with us 365er's:)
April 30th, 2017  
Bep
She is a beautiful lady, I love her sparkling eyes.
April 30th, 2017  
What a beautiful looking woman and certainly does not look anywhere near 90.. well taken portrait.
April 30th, 2017  
@pcoulson

One-word notes, Peter and try to write so I can read it aferwards. Thanks for your comment.
April 30th, 2017  
You meet the most marvelous people Hazel and writ so beautifully about them.
April 30th, 2017  
@30pics4jackiesdiamond

Thank you - so kind, Jackie. It's disproportionately time-consuming compared to other genres of photography but I love it.
April 30th, 2017  
Vic
Fantastic! - Not just a wonderful portrait of a beautiful person, but also a truly fascinating story!
April 30th, 2017  
Sam
She is 90 this August???? This woman looks 60!!! WOW, whatever she is doing, she should keep on doing it. AMAZING!
April 30th, 2017  
She is really quite incredible. A lovely, youthful face and looks nowhere near her 90 years. What an interesting lady and I am sure you will bump into her again.
April 30th, 2017  
Wonderful for her age she must have a secret Elixir of youth. A beautiful portrait of Margot and an interesting account of her story.
April 30th, 2017  
What a lovely lady. I can't believe she is almost 90. You must have had a long chat with her to get so much information.
April 30th, 2017  
Wonderful story and lovely portrait. I only hope that I can look half as good and be half as full of life as Margot ,if I ever get to be her age!
April 30th, 2017  
This is wonderful. I always enjoy your strangers so much
April 30th, 2017  
Wow...super portrait shot with great clarity...What a wonderful story. Margo's intelligence and vigor shine through your lens.
April 30th, 2017  
Beautiful lady and portrait!
April 30th, 2017  
Great portrait of this, beautiful looking, nice Lady.
April 30th, 2017  
She doesn't look like she's going to be 90! Wow! Wonderful photo and story.
May 1st, 2017  
Wonderful portrait.
May 1st, 2017  
Wonderful portrait and story Hazel fav
May 1st, 2017  
Well done, Camera Lady!
May 1st, 2017  
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