Haze's strangers: No.207: Bishal  by quietpurplehaze

Haze's strangers: No.207: Bishal

We took a trip to Winchester, partly to secure acccessories for my new camera. I found one of two items I needed and then we stopped off at Pret a Manger for one of their delicious salads.

Afterwards, walking down the main street, I noticed a market stall selling clothes from Nepal, including a top which really appealed to me. The 'patchwork' effect of the construction was in patterned material, mainly in colours of purple, and turquoise. It took a little time to find the right size and to check in a nearby shop window, dark in the sunlight, if I liked it. As Ray was settling up I had the idea of asking the young stallholder if I could take his photo.

He hesitated slightly and I thought he would refuse but he was very amenable and I took several shots underneath the canopy over his stall, great for avoiding the effects of the full sun. I introduced myself and found his name, Bishal. He told me that this stall was a new venture which he started a few months ago. His main job is as manager of Domino's in Amesbury, near Stonehenge.

Bishal lives with his brother and family at Tidworth near the Ghurka camp There is a tradition of service within his family, his grandfather, father and brother have all served, or are serving, as Ghurkas. There was a little pause in the story and then Bishal looked at me and told me that he did not want to reveal at the beginning of our encounter that he had been a drug adddict. He recounted his story of coming to England from Nepal in 2008 and within two years succumbing to heroin addiction which lasted for six or seven years. Coming to live with his brother's family marked a turning point for him and he worked hard by himself to be free of heroin and has now been clean for a few good years.

I was touched that he wanted to tell me this and felt he had done well and told him what I felt. I asked if it was alright to include this part of his story and, very firmly, he answered yes.

Bishal told me he would like to engage in charity work in the future to help the older generation in Nepal who have a very difficult life, struggling with their day to day existence. He described himself as a vegetarian and a spiritual person. I offered photos and he wrote down his email address for me.

This was such a lovely, interesting and unexpected encounter. As we left, Bishal and I shook hands with, on his part, some heartfelt good wishes to Ray and myself. I promised to send photos.


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What a heartwarming story and lovely image.
August 19th, 2022  
What a wonderful story and portrait you have captured here Hazel:)
August 19th, 2022  
Such an interesting story this young man has. Super portrait of him. Hope you love your new top!
August 19th, 2022  
@365anne

Thanks and yes, have just ironed it Anne!
August 19th, 2022  
What a lovely chap and a heart-warming story.
August 19th, 2022  
An amazing story and a lovely portrait .
August 19th, 2022  
Love your narrative and portrait!
August 19th, 2022  
Sparkly eyes to go with that smile, lovely
August 19th, 2022  
If you are in touch with Bishal again Hazel please pass on my admiration for him for beating his addiction & making a good life for himself in a new country….not easy! He looks happy & healthy….The Ghurkas have much to be proud of. I hope we can see your new top soon.
August 19th, 2022  
fabulous smile and portrait in a difficult environment for lightning
August 20th, 2022  
Good luck to Bishal. You have a way of drawing people out Hazel. Very interesting story and beautiful portrait.
August 20th, 2022  
@phil_howcroft

Phil, thank you. First portrait with my RX100 M6!
August 20th, 2022  
@quietpurplehaze nice one haze 📷📷📷
August 20th, 2022  
Thank you for your visits and comments, much appreciated. Beautiful feedback from Bishal in response to the photos I sent. He wrote he really liked them and the way I had written up his story and continued: "Keep it up my dear and live your life to the fullest. I wish you all the best with positivity, happiness and good health to you and to your family. Take care Hazel it was a pleasure to meet you."

@dide @phil_howcroft @shutterbug49 @happypat @casablanca @jacqbb @gardencat @onewing @365anne @pcoulson @dide
August 21st, 2022  
What a gorgeous thing to write back to you. It just goes to show what a positive effect that you have on all people around you. Well done.I couldn't agree with him more.
August 21st, 2022  
@dide

Thank you, Dianne, for that lovely comment. From my point of view, a response like this makes a strangers' portrait project very worthwhile and brings much interest and good feeling into my life.
August 21st, 2022  
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