63 by cdonohoue

63

It is so difficult to take a picture of yourself. I never look relaxed - I've never liked having my picture taken. And, now, of course I prefer the other end of the camera. But I thought I'd give it a go for my birthday.
Here's last year.
http://365project.org/cdonohoue/and-more/2013-02-18

It's OK. I'm not upset by telling my age. I wish there was less salt in my hair - but that is the way it is. I'm healthy - I'm a happy camper. Most especially since the camera became such part of my life. I tell folks that it is Prozac and Percocet all rolled into one.

What else strikes me about 63? The biggest thing is "time." Don't wait too long for what you want - we've decided now is the time for a good trip every year. Tell people how you feel about them - I do. I tell the folks that I love that I love them - out loud. You all are a huge part of my everyday life. I appreciate that more than I can every tell you. I need each and every one of you to make my day, help me along, recommend something else for me to learn, give me pointers and graciously let me learn from you. You are all important to my mental health.

Thank you all, for your comments and favs along the way. Thanks for being there. You never know when you say just what I need to hear. So, I'm celebrating my age. So far it is just fine.
A lovely portrait, age is just a number :) I'm glad you are healthy and have a hobby you love and share. Happy Birthday Cathy!
February 18th, 2014  
Gorgeous portrait Cathy.
February 18th, 2014  
63 looks beautiful on you! You wear it beautifully! Happy Birthday! And I love your philosophy on life.
February 18th, 2014  
A great selfie/
February 18th, 2014  
Beautiful portrait, Happy Birthday Cathy!
February 18th, 2014  
Beautiful selfie and lovely thoughts...
February 18th, 2014  
Happy birthday, Cathy! I hope this year will be among your best... sounds like you are making the most of the wisdom we gain through the experience that comes with age. Health becomes more and more precious as the years pass... physical and mental! I find 365 quite therapeutic. You wear 63 well!
February 18th, 2014  
Happy birthday!
February 18th, 2014  
Brilliant selfie and so brave of you, I just don't have the guts to do this yet lol. Hope your having a fantastic birthday :)
February 18th, 2014  
Happy birthday, nice photo and wise words! Enjoy each day.
February 18th, 2014  
Lovely portrait and Happy Birthday Cathy!!
February 18th, 2014  
I checked last years and love that one! This one is slightly more serious, no small smile - just a quirk! Its difficult to get things exactly as you want to - many photos! Happy Birthday Cathy - you have a long way to catch up on me!
February 18th, 2014  
I'm with @maggiemae about your smile. You look so serious here! Terrific selfie other than that!! Blessed to count you as a friend too, Cathy! Happy birthday!
February 19th, 2014  
Happy Birthday!
February 19th, 2014  
Happy, happy birthday to you, Cathy! A wonderful selfie!
February 19th, 2014  
Happy Birthday Cathy! I love your honesty in sharing your valuable insights about aging. I'm about your age and understand your feelings completely. I cherish every moment with my family, friends and mother nature. That is why I love photography - to capture those special moments forever. When I have to take a selfie ( as I just did for my passport) I find it helpful to put a mirror right behind the camera so I can observe my expression. Then after about 200 shots I find one that is acceptable!:) (Thank goodness we don't still use film) You're a lovely lady with a great smile so I'd suggest using the mirror to relax and give yourself a beautiful smile!
February 19th, 2014  
@mccarth1 Thats a great idea Kerry! mirror behind camera!
February 19th, 2014  
Fab selfie! I just love your attitude about your age - we should all be so healthy! Have the happiest birthday, my friend!
February 19th, 2014  
Happy Birthday to such a beautiful woman!!
February 19th, 2014  
Happy Birthday, Cathy! It looks good on you. Beautiful inside and out.
February 19th, 2014  
Happy birthday! Beautiful portrait!!
February 19th, 2014  
Lovely selfie, Cathy and Happy Birthday to you! I understand what you are saying about not liking to have your picture taken. I don't like pictures of myself either.
February 19th, 2014  
@mccarth1 What a great idea! I have to try that. I also have to get a battery for the remote shutter. I kept running back to the chair.....technical difficulties.
February 19th, 2014  
@timandelke Thank you, Elke. I have worked to have that attitude. I'm getting pretty good at it
February 19th, 2014  
Lovely self-portrait. Hope you had a great bday!
February 19th, 2014  
Happy Birthday Cathy!!! Great selfie and great attitude! Saw that you need a battery for your remote so wanted to let you know today is also National Battery Day! Hope you enjoyed your day.
February 19th, 2014  
Happy Birthday, Cathy, 63 is wonderful and I agree with your musings, now is the time to do as you want and to remind people how much they mean to you. I hope you have a wonderful year heading to 64.
February 19th, 2014  
Happy birthday to you and a lovely self portrait to commemorate the day. I, too, hate having my pictures taken.
February 19th, 2014  
Wise words Cathy, and a superb selfie! Really so well done! You look great! Happy Birthday!
February 19th, 2014  
Happy Birthday to you. I turn your age in March.............. great selfie. Lovely colors.
February 19th, 2014  
A lovely selfie,Cathy!! A Very Happy Birthday!!
February 19th, 2014  
Great selfie, Cathy - Congratulations, too
February 19th, 2014  
Lovely selfie, happy Bday 2 U!!!
February 19th, 2014  
Happy Birthday Cathy! I do believe that there is a lot of truth to that old saying "You're as young as you feel!" A lot of that is really more in your head than in your body- so I think you've hit the nail on the head in using the creative outlet of photography to keep your days positive. I hope you have a great year ahead- with lots of opportunities to travel, tell the ones you love how much you love them, and of course, take pictures!! Nice selfie!
February 19th, 2014  
Happy Birthday! This is such a great selfie, the colours are wonderful. You look great!
February 19th, 2014  
Love it. The colours suit you down to the ground.
February 19th, 2014  
Happy Birthday! Great selfie!
February 19th, 2014  
a beautiful selfie cathy and very moving words from deep within your heart and soul...oh happy birthday too x
February 19th, 2014  
Lovely portrait. Happy birthday.
February 20th, 2014  
Nice one.
February 21st, 2014  
I love this - what a relaxed, lovely expression and face. And I love your outlook on life! X oh - and belated happy birthday m'dear :)
February 21st, 2014  
A really powerful portrait. Congrats on cherishing your age.
February 22nd, 2014  
Vee
Happy Birthday to you! Great work on the selfie...I know it's not easy having gone through it myself recently :) I love your words....great food for thought and I will take your advice seriously:)
February 22nd, 2014  
Well done Cathy, I still need to learn how to do a selfie!!
February 22nd, 2014  
What a nice portrait Cathy. Everyone should celebrate their age. Happy belated birthday. I wish you ongoing health, happiness and creativity.
February 22nd, 2014  
Last year... ;) Congratulations with a new year in your life!!! I hop e it will bring your inspiration, health and luck! :)
February 22nd, 2014  
Great selfie portrait. Happy birthday, Cathy... Hope you had a great day.
February 23rd, 2014  
Really enjoyed reading your philosophy - one I try to copy. (Have a bunch more years on you so I've had more practice!) Like the selfie - tried my first - just don't have the nerve to post it :) As you said, good thing these aren't the days of film! And I definitely agree with your thoughts on the wonderful benefits of this site -there isn't a better group anywhere for the spirit than here on 365. Have another wonderful year.
February 27th, 2014  
Sorry I missed this. Gorgeous portrait for your birthday. I hope you had a lovely day xx
February 27th, 2014  
Happy Birthday! This is a very nice portrait; i've never done a "selfie" so you are inspiring me.
March 3rd, 2014  
Caz
A belated Happy Birthday ! I love this portrait and really enjoyed reading your words....:)
March 3rd, 2014  
Sorry i missed your Birthday Cathy hope you had a lovely Day hope this makes up for missing it a Fav
March 4th, 2014  
I missed this photo Cathy, was when we were in NZ. Lovely lady & a happy belated birthday. Love your sensible & moving comments about life.....you are so right ! You never know if it will be the last time you see someone & you have never told them you love them enough. I was actually checking back as I have just read you moving piece about your son Michael
July 21st, 2014  
Sorry posted too soon......I must have missed the post about him.....what ever is wrong I do hope things improve.......you must be a great comfort to him.
July 21st, 2014  
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