A candle for Charlie by happypat

A candle for Charlie

My lovely cinema friend has a two year old grandson who has been diagnosed with quite a rare brain tumour.
Charlie is her middle grandson & has today undergone major surgery to remove as much of it as they can. The operation at Manchester Children's Hospital was due to take most of the day, I haven't heard how it's gone yet.

As you can imagine the whole family is going through hell & Dot is looking after five year old Jack & 6 month old Harry.

Today I went into church & lit a candle for Charlie.

#thumbsupforcharlie. This is an online support group to give Charlie & his family good wishes & prayers.

Three good things:
The skill of surgeons, we have our lives in their hands.
2. Cooing of wood pigeons as we had our evening meal outside.
3. Temperatures in the very high twenties today.
You must all be extremely worried about Charlie. The candle is a great idea - shine a little light.... We will remember you all in our prayers.
June 26th, 2018  
I'm guessing this is the Charlie I posted on my Facebook page this morning. https://www.facebook.com/joyce.lancaster.5

June 26th, 2018  
Ooh Pat ! so sorry to hear this - I hope by now the op has been completed and successful such a worry for all the family My thoughts and prayers are with the little family ! xx
June 26th, 2018  
Pat such a worrying time for the family and friends too. I do hope the operation was successful. My prayers are with them
June 26th, 2018  
@thistle Yes Joyce that's the little boy, thank you for sharing.
#thumbsupforcharlie is a support group for the family. If needed he might be lucky to have proton treatment on the NHS but if they cant get funding I think will open a just giving page. I have heard nothing yet how the op has gone.
June 26th, 2018  
@mave @beryl Thank you both, it's very upsetting, awful how these things come out of the blue.
June 26th, 2018  
Such dreadful news for your friends family! So scary for you all! My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Beautiful candle!
June 26th, 2018  
@pamknowler Thank you Pam, all prayers & thoughts are so welcome.
June 26th, 2018  
Oh Pat that is so sad.. lets hope surgery and the following treatments and recovery go well.. tough times ahead.. love to all.. xxx
June 26th, 2018  
This is such a dreadful time for them and also for their friends. There is so little you can do except be there for them. I do hope the surgery went OK. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
June 26th, 2018  
How very sad, hope that the surgeons were able to remove as much as possible.
June 26th, 2018  
How awful.so sad.life can be so unfair.thoughta with them xx
June 26th, 2018  
Boo
keeping you and them in my thoughts and hoping everything goes well xxxxx
June 26th, 2018  
Bep
Such dreadful news and such a worrying time. I do hope the surgery went OK.
June 26th, 2018  
Oh my, devastating news for your friend and her family. Prayers for the little one and his surgeons. Iā€™m so sorry, Pat.
June 26th, 2018  
Such heartbreaking news when we hear of situations such as this. I'm certain many prayers will be said for this little one.
June 26th, 2018  
@julzmaioro @thistle @carolmw @brennieb @huvesaker @gijsje @louannwarren

I was really upset when she told me, couldn't believe it. Kept thinking if it was either of our little boys how we would feel. A terrible facing fir the parents. Luckilt Dot looks after them lots & soends time at this house so us very capable of minding both boys while dad & mum are at the hospital. They have been staying in specially available hospital accommodation for this very purpose. No news yet but he will be in ITU for a week. Thank you all & I will pass on your good wishes.
June 26th, 2018  
Oh its no fun at all hope all goes well.
June 26th, 2018  
Everyone is so sympathetic and that must help knowing so many are thinking the whole family! I like the lighting candles for someone. Done that myself!
June 26th, 2018  
My thoughts are with Charlie and family. I know from personal experience the fear, stress and helplessness of having a sick child!
June 27th, 2018  
Such devastating news Pat. I do hope Charlie has a greater quality of life after his surgery. It must be so distressing for everyone.
June 27th, 2018  
Praying for Charlie.
June 27th, 2018  
OMG....my heart just sank.
So very sad, it's going to be so hard on the family & Charlie.
I still can't believe how many babies/children are being diagnosed with Brain Cancer.
Sending prayers for them,hope Charlie does well with treatment.
it's very hard to cure.
Our son had Rhabdomyosarcoma,do you know what Cancer it is?
( Hope you don't mind me asking) xx
June 27th, 2018  
@skippysue I don't mind at all Susan. The interest & concern has been heartwarming. You will have special knowledge of what this family is going through, it must be an horrendous experience that most of us never have to go through hopefully.
Charlie has an Epondymoma cancer, quite rare I have been told. If all goes well with the op he might be eligible for Proton treatment on the NHS but if not they will need to raise a large amount quickly hence the publicity at the moment to make people aware.
I haven't heard anything yet but my friend said it might be a possibility to meet up with her & youngest one today but no message yet. Last thing I want do to is pester so shall wait for news. You will never forget the time you went through & your son forever in your heart & thoughts but hope you have gained a little peace of mind! It's amazing g how many on 365 have lost children, I can think of three straight of among my followers & friends. Will keep you up to date & thank you.
June 27th, 2018  
Oh Pat, it's always so hard seeing small ones go through such traumas. I ache for you and your friends and family. Rooting for little Charlie and praying as I type.
June 27th, 2018  
Heart rending story and the photo says it so well. My heart goes out to your friend and all her family
June 27th, 2018  
Such a terrible time for the family - kind thoughts to everyone.
June 27th, 2018  
So sorry to hear this Pat, and the update. Hope things improve for them and they have lots of support!
June 28th, 2018  
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