Mum & Mhairi, Indonesia, 1994 by jamibann

Mum & Mhairi, Indonesia, 1994

It's 12 years today since I lost my mum, and so I thought it was a good reason to post a photo of her. A terrible one of our daughter though!

The photo brings back lots of memories. Mhairi was born full term but underweight at 2.2 kilos, (under 5 lbs). She is 6 weeks old in this image, and we were living in Indonesia at the time. Mum hadn't planned coming over, but when she saw how tiny Mhairi was, she was so concerned that she got on a flight and came to see us. It was her first long distance flight, at 57 years of age, and she came alone - Aberdeen-London-Singapore-Balikpapan. Mhairi and I went to meet her in Singapore.

This photo was taken in our home in Balikpapan. Mhairi looks absolutely terrified! Mum spent the whole two weeks being worried about everything - the beasties, the heat, the traffic, the food, the baby, how dad was coping on his own with the dog, ... but she loved every moment of being with us and assured us that she was glad she came!!!

Memories.
Lovely memory .. but Mhairi does look a little concerned.. You would of loved her support at that time..
July 6th, 2023  
Such a wonderful story and lovely shot of your brave and daring mum. She looks wonderful, what great memories it must bring back.
July 6th, 2023  
A nice tribute
July 6th, 2023  
What a lovely photo and a wonderful memory of your Mum.
July 6th, 2023  
A lovely memory for you
July 6th, 2023  
A beautiful memory to treasure. What an amazing journey that must have been for her! Also, those glasses are fantastic.
July 6th, 2023  
It's lovely to look back at our photos that hold such happy memories
July 6th, 2023  
Lovely memory
July 6th, 2023  
What a lovely memory, and a exciting if somewhat worrying trip for your mum!!
July 6th, 2023  
Wow, that's a whole lot of memories. Sounds like a very interesting time for you all. Lovely one of your mum
July 6th, 2023  
I can relate to your mum completely as I’ve done the same visiting NZ. On my own many times & it’s a big undertaking. I also worried about things at home too…farm, Harry, dogs etc but loved the adventure & seeing the world. Good for your mum & she would be full of chat to everyone when she returned home.
You would be so pleased to see her & for her to hold Mhairi.
July 6th, 2023  
Lovely memory
July 6th, 2023  
Thanks for sharing the memory.
July 6th, 2023  
lovely back story Issi , lovely photo too
July 6th, 2023  
What lovely memories!
July 6th, 2023  
What a terrific story. She wouldn't have done it any differently and I'll bet you were so glad to have her there.
July 7th, 2023  
A precious memory for certain. I think I'd do the same- must be a "grandma" thing!
July 7th, 2023  
My mom came to help me, claimed she couldn't remember a thing about babies, and did the cooking and laundry. A very big help.
July 7th, 2023  
Wonderful memories.
July 7th, 2023  
Loved reading about the memories this image inspired.
July 7th, 2023  
Memories indeed...Lovely
July 7th, 2023  
what a funny shot to have in the photo album!
July 7th, 2023  
Lovely memory of your Mum. Poor Mhairi!
July 7th, 2023  
Ah lovely.
July 9th, 2023  
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