Second Dad by phil_sandford

Second Dad

This is me, sat with Roy Holland, who I called my second Dad sometime in the early 80s I think, before I met Carole. I was never that relaxed around my real Dad.

I first met Roy, when I was 14, when we moved to Thetford in Norfolk (where Dad’s Army was filmed) in February 1975 and Roy was the leader of the 3rd Thetford Scouts. I met his youngest son, Nigel, a day later and we have been best friends ever since.

Roy, and his Wife Mavis, with Nigel and his Brother Clive (who was away at Boarding School for much of the time) were a second family to me. They patched me up if I’d been fighting (I generally lost and turned up at theirs bleeding from somewhere), they cleaned me up if I was worse for drink, they got me out of far too much trouble for somebody not actually related to them. Carole met Roy & Mavis before she met my real Mum and Dad.

Sadly Roy passed in 2003 but I’m still in regular contact with his family.

Thanks for dropping by.


Lovely memory shot and wonderful story. So happy for you to have had this lovely second family
May 28th, 2024  
Nice throwback shot of you & Roy.
May 28th, 2024  
Great backstory to the photograph
May 28th, 2024  
How lucky you are. Lovely memory and story.
May 28th, 2024  
What a lovely memory and story.
May 28th, 2024  
Looks like you are having a great time.
May 28th, 2024  
Nice memory and shot
May 29th, 2024  
What a great memory and lovely to have special people in your life
May 29th, 2024  
Nice memory
May 29th, 2024  
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