A truly terrible few days ... by jamibann

A truly terrible few days ...

I've been quiet of late for good reason, but primarily because we've been cut off since Friday evening. No power, no phone, no internet and a fair bit of bad weather and snow. However, all that has been rectified and we are now connected and warm again.

Let me begin with Friday when I got the bad news from France that a former colleague and good friend had died of cancer. I couldn't believe it as I never knew she was ill, and she was the same age as me. So, in memory of my lovely friend Marie-Line, who I met at a course in Paris in 1986, I'm posting this photo taken at a Burns' Supper at my place in France back in 1988. Marie Line is the lovely smiling girl between the two boys. On her left, Pal the Norwegian and on her right, Peter the Yorkshireman, with whom we go hillwalking with in Scotland, now that we're all back here. In front, the only Frenchman of the group, Jean-Pierre, otherwise known as Mr Stiffy Tocky, as this was what he called our famous Sticky Toffee Pudding, with his inimitable French accent! On the left of the image, the Scottish lassies, Carol, Lynne, Bev and Lesley. This photo takes me back, and I've spent a lot of time over the weekend thinking of Marie-Line.

We then went to visit dad on Monday morning, took our LFT test before doing so, to find that John tested positive ... twice! He did have symptoms, but we put it down to him having just had his booster jab. So, we're grounded. I'm negative, but we've both now done a PCR test and hoping for a negative result x 2. So no visit to dad, but the home assures me that they were all kept warm during the very long power outage.

And this morning, St. Andrew's Day, I opened up my phone to find that my neighbour's daughter's boyfriend, whom we know well as he is a Braemar loon, was killed in a car accident yesterday. I am absolutely gutted. The fragility of life has never been so evident to me as it is right now. I can't get these things out of my head.
Oh dearest Issi, my heart aches for you and I want to wrap you up in a huge hug. I am so sorry for all your troubles and losses. No wonder you are reeling. Sending you so so much love as you process all this. Xxxxx
November 30th, 2021  
Oh what a terrible few days you have had.. Take care and happy memories of happy times..
Sounds like you were hit by a real weather bomb.. ❄
November 30th, 2021  
Oh Issi, what a terrible time you’ve been having. Sending you a big hug and hopes that things improve very soon x
November 30th, 2021  
Oh now, life dure dealt you dome bad cards! Sorry for all the misery you have been through, it sure takes it's toll on the soul. Hoping that the future will look brighter and that you will both be well soon again. Sending positive thoughts and blessings your way. 💐
November 30th, 2021  
You have certainly had more than your fair share of bad news. Hopefully you are both ok.
November 30th, 2021  
Oh Issi... I feel your sadness as I read your narrative.. So much to happen in such a short time...& awful weather. Easy for me to say, to think of the happy times & wonderful memories but, you must grieve first.. My love & prayers & warm hugs to you & yours .xx
November 30th, 2021  
Oh what a terrible time you hare having at the moment. Just take some time for yourself and take it easy
November 30th, 2021  
. . . . Some days are stone
November 30th, 2021  
Oh my what a difficult time you’re having........hope you both will be ok!
We have to enjoy today because we don’t know what tomorrow brings!
Stay safe.
November 30th, 2021  
Oh Issi, so sorry to read about all these episodes rolled in together on top of the awful weather. We were thinking about you a lot - just 24 powerless hours here which was bad enough. Some friends just a couple of miles out the road are still powerless. The snow has melted here which is good. Now to try and fix our battered patio fence.
💛🥰😘
November 30th, 2021  
What a terrible time you are having, so sad to hear all your news. It can only get better surely, and hoping you test negative too.
November 30th, 2021  
Oh Issi what a terrible time you are having!! So much sad news for you all at once. Sending you lots of loving hugs! Life can be so cruel sometimes. You have lots of wonderful memories to treasure and I hope they help you. Big hug xx
November 30th, 2021  
Sending you warm thoughts.
November 30th, 2021  
So sorry to hear your sad news. Take care. Thinking of you.
November 30th, 2021  
Sometimes life just seems to spiral out of control. So glad your powers back and so sorry about all the sad news. Hugs
November 30th, 2021  
Dear Issi, you must feel like crying when to see this lovely photo of such happy times. A beautiful friend struck down so young & then the sad news of the young man…..you must be reeling!
I hope you & John test clear, the last thing you want now is to be struck down with coronovirus. Thank goodness you can rest easy knowing dad is safe & warm. I guessed you would be without power….
The best place to be is at home when you’re grieving & vulnerable. Big hugs. Xx
November 30th, 2021  
What an awful few days you've had Issi. I hope the negative test results are just around the corner. Sending hugs across the oceans xx
November 30th, 2021  
I'm so sorry to read all those sad and difficult news. Take care and feel the warmth of a hug from far away.
November 30th, 2021  
OMG -- you've had to go through way to much in far too short a time. A reminder to live life to the fullest, but no less difficult to experience such tragic losses. Wishing you both well and free of virus! All the best.
November 30th, 2021  
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So sorry to read all your sad news Issi. Sending you a big virtual hug.
November 30th, 2021  
Oh what a terrible time you've had. There are no words but I do hope you find comfort in your many friends and family. Thinking of you Issi
November 30th, 2021  
Rather, those were great days.
November 30th, 2021  
So sorry to read all that's happened in such a short time - know we're all pulling for you and sending warm hugs and thoughts.
December 1st, 2021  
This is like reading a letter from home. So much bad news that I can understand how it must play on your mind during the quiet of the power outage.
December 1st, 2021  
You have had an avalanche of hard news and hard times. Hard to deal with at the best of times, and even worse when everyone is so worn down by the pandemic. I hope you see some light in the next few days. Hug the people you love whenever you can.
December 1st, 2021  
Sending you huge virtual hugs across the oceans to help deal with your dreadful days. xxx
December 1st, 2021  
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