Sow a seed of doubt. ... by beverley365

Sow a seed of doubt. ...

Up until early September I have continued to love, nurture and care for our garden, after all its 29yrs old and sooo beautiful. My vegetable garden has fed me and many neighbours on going, Swaps are so much fun.

Mid sept I had the palm tree trimmed ready for bad weather. My buyers visited and said ‘don’t waste your time - the garden is going…

When she asked about what the trees were? I’m rolling my eyes as I write this…
and the herbs in my many herb gardens
my heart sank. They don’t eat fruit or vegetables.

Hoping to inspire them I said would label everything and leave my garden books & tools

I failed - This is life - life changes

My garden is the only good size one in this area, it’s always full with birds which nest every year, butterflies, crickets, lizards… Ooo the list is endless
the lovely new houses ( like an estate ) around me have small concrete yards with a dip pool,
I go to the beach

Being positive : I take with me great memories, beautiful photos and the acceptance that not everybody likes nature.

Where the palm tree is - will become a large Bar 🍺 the palm tree will be a small table…
It will become a concrete very large yard,
No pool because they don’t swim.

I leave early in the morning with a smile and skip, I’m onto my ‘what Nowness’ and I couldn’t be happier.

As I write this I’m on the verandah listening to the birds, the neighbours dogs looking at me quizzically, and breathing in thé fragrance of rosemary & oregano

This is life…




This is very interesting.
March 1st, 2024  
Oh my word, I feel sad reading your narrative. But you do sound positive, regardless. As one door closes another opens. Enjoy every moment.
March 1st, 2024  
I thought just what @jamibann said! Can you take any seeds or anything with you? Some of the herbs, maybe, if you won't have outdoor garden space in France?
March 1st, 2024  
A true turning point for you. Heart breaking in a way, but exhilarating also...
March 1st, 2024  
Very sad that they can't appreciate your oasis - but people are different. You have given to it and taken from it and you have your wonderful memories.
March 1st, 2024  
So sad the new owners don't appreciate the beauty, but I suppose they were your dreams and memories, and the new owners will now make their own dreams and memories. Unfortunately, they are so different to yours.
March 1st, 2024  
Yes keep all your good memories as they will create theirs
You have such a great attitude
March 1st, 2024  
A place I will not find insects and garden vegetations, so sad.
March 2nd, 2024  
A very sad story indeed, at least you have your wonderful memories and photos. Being as positive as you are, you will certainly find what you need.
March 2nd, 2024  
Sometimes it is hard to see what new owners do to a property!
March 2nd, 2024  
Oh that is heartbreaking, your bravery and positivity is amazing, one of the hardest parts of moving is having to let go, but oh I don't have to be brave or positive - I can be furious and irritated at these people who don't value something beyond price 🤣
March 2nd, 2024  
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